through out my life i realize that my advantage nad selfishness hurts the ones that i love so much,i didnt realise that it would cause so much pain and conflict towards people.I thought that life was all about fun,now that im all grown i now realize that there is a time and a place where it should stop.yes!you can have a laugh with your friends and stay out as long as you want,but dnt take it upon ur self to use it as a advantage,limit your self.I am a young lady,soon to become a woman so i have to set myself responsibilities.I use to think that i could do what i want and no one could stop me from doing so,but i have to think of others such as my mom and not just myself.Growing up with just one parents is hard,single mom that is a hard road to go throught,watching my mom struggling made me see things in a different view,that was one of the reason why i took advantage because the pain that my mom went throught went throught me,feeling her pain made me stress and upset.There is alot of young people that face the same situation as me.I am not writing this becauase i want you to feel sorry for me..don't!i just want you to look at things on another level,not jus your level but the ones that you care about.Time to time i regret doing things but by hanger took the best of me and i would not care at all,now that i seen thing in a diffrent view and learnt from my mistakes i took it upon myself to draw the line and teach my self to do it the right way.Now everything is progressing and going kinda well my life as been less complicated and less arguments had happen with the people around me arguing,life is jus responsibilities and amoung all other thing so you have to controll it and sort it out to the best of your abilities.